I love my husband with all my heart, but even when we met, it wasn't really chemistry that attracted me- it was all about who he was. Now, after 10 years together, never rollicking to start with, our sex life has dwindled to once every two weeks or so. We are definately in a slump! There are other contributing factors - menopause, Prozac (which is why I stopped taking it!) long hours working, etc. Besides that, neither of us makes a move, for me it's because I don't much feel the desire, and for him, since he complains about the lack of sex, I don't think it is lack of desire, but he just isn't a physically demonstrative sort. He has to be pretty drunk to make a pass! I tend to be attracted to bad boys, the kind who push you up against a cabinet and kiss you madly, but those kind of guys never work out well in the long run. So when I met my husband, it was a breath of fresh air not to feel all crazy passionate. They say the things that attract you to a mate end up being the things that bug you after many years together, so maybe that's all it is. But I want our marriage to work, and so I need to find a way to fix this. It's not to the point where we need to see a marriage counselor, but I want to keep from getting there. Has anyone else had this to deal with?
Demeter Reviewed by Demeter on . Spicing up a 10 year marriage I love my husband with all my heart, but even when we met, it wasn't really chemistry that attracted me- it was all about who he was. Now, after 10 years together, never rollicking to start with, our sex life has dwindled to once every two weeks or so. We are definately in a slump! There are other contributing factors - menopause, Prozac (which is why I stopped taking it!) long hours working, etc. Besides that, neither of us makes a move, for me it's because I don't much feel the desire, and Rating: 5