I got rid of my BF on Sept 1st. He was text messaging another chick with romantic text messages. He had cheated on me with her before. When I confronted him he threw me all over the room, started choking me, and trying to force me to suck him so I would know that he hadn't f'ed anyone else that night. I still have a couple marks on my neck. Needless to say I threw all his stuff out the window and told him goodbye. I don't need that in my life.. I have zero desire to talk to him or anyone in his family. There is nothing left to say.