Quote Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion
Here you go ladies, rant/rave/ect. Share your stories and feel for others. I think it's sad that I can make a thread like this but I've noticed that a LOT of girls here have been in some type of abusive relationship, whether is be physical, emotional or mental.

I've been in a few emotionally/mentally abusive relationship and only one mildly physically one. Basically I got into relationships with older men starting at age 13 with a 17 year old. It ended at 15 with a 21-22 year old. I've noticed a lot of women here have reached a point in their life when they said enough is enough and that's why I think this thread will be okay..and maybe it will help someone too.
Ok,so I've waited a little while to post in this thread.... mostly cuz I've been through alot when I think about it and I try not to.No point focusing on the past,eh?My history with men also started at 16 with an 18 yr old.He was mentally verbally and emotionally abusive.he cheated on me all the time and told me I was fat and ugly,when I weighed 90 lbs soaking wet at 5' 7".Of course I believed everything he said to me due to being extremely naive and him being my first serious b/f.That lasted until I was 20 almost 21 and 2 kids later.He also started using heroin and meth intraveniously without telling me.He was not clean about it and didn't ever use condoms when cheating.THANK GOD I didn't ever catch anything while we were together.I was terrified of coming up HIV positive and have had tests done every year for the last 10 yrs.... Of course having kids they do that automatically now.I think it's a good thing. Anyway,after that one I was trapped in a relationship I felt I couldn't get out of and then when i tried he stalked me.That really sucked!! That was a physically abusive relationship and he did time on a felony assault 4 charge.It was 2 yrs long but felt like 10.... then I was with "the one".Everything was great we didn't fight, had the same sense of humor and alot of the same goals.Unfortunately he decided to cheat the night I told him I was pregnant,then bailed with someone else.Then I got with my ex-husband the only one I was married to and after 8 yrs of him not paying the bills,us losing our home 2x and alot of debt and grief later.... we decided to end it too.Seems like there are no truly faithful men out there.... but that's a disheartening thought and I'd like to hold onto some hope....lol Now I'm with my current man and we have a new baby together with quite a gap of 6 1/2 years between my 2 youngest.I love him very much and even though things aren't financially the best at the moment, he loves me and I love him with my whole heart.So that's my list in a nut shell.... 5 relationships,32 yrs old, and 6 kids later.... things are finally looking up. Anyway,BFA, live while you're still young deal with the kids your age and grow up without the mess,Babygirl!!! You got a LONG time to worry about being involved in anything serious,be fickle while you can and enjoy the time you have for fun things and great memories with friends and family.... that's all you really need at your age the there's plenty of other stuff later!!! Love ya Baby!!

Love,Tiva
DarkHairedSativa Reviewed by DarkHairedSativa on . Abusive relationships Here you go ladies, rant/rave/ect. Share your stories and feel for others. I think it's sad that I can make a thread like this but I've noticed that a LOT of girls here have been in some type of abusive relationship, whether is be physical, emotional or mental. I've been in a few emotionally/mentally abusive relationship and only one mildly physically one. Basically I got into relationships with older men starting at age 13 with a 17 year old. It ended at 15 with a 21-22 year old. I've Rating: 5