Abusive relationships

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

Every fight we had was about my age or how I was basically not good enough because of it. He always complained that I could never go to clubs or bars and he made me feel like shit for being so young. We smoked and had sex basically all the time. Nice. Your age didn't stop him from having sex with you. What a choad he is.

While he said he was considered a child molester by the state, Yep. By me too.

If anyone ever feels like MAYBE, just MAYBE they're in an abusive relationship, you really need to get out. It will only get worse until finally it either ends *badly* somehow or someone gets really hurt.

True. Stay strong BFA.

[Skink]

My uncle was deathly afraid of my aunts steak knife...

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I think there should be one in there too but I think some of the girls may feel more comfortable sharing their stories with other girls, 'cause some of us may be at a state where we think men just can't possibly understand.

I'm not like that tho, so if this needs to be moved...go for it!

[Samwhore]

Ive never been in an abusive relationship, but thats probally because if a guy ever tries to get physical with me, I turn him down and make him feel like a loser. Im the more abusive one, people even say to me "Sam, when your older, your going to beat your husband arent you?" Its kind of sad, but I can imagine it.

[slipknotpsycho]

oh you're young yet.. just wait.... one day you'll get abused, one way or anohter >.< no one is lucky enough to go through life and not be.... even those bully fucks who pick on every one and everything, were more than likely abused as a baby/toddler... and if not, it happened later on sometime

[Samwhore]

Slip, I was the bully, those days are over.

[connector_robot]

True. Stay strong BFA.

Unless it was rape, you consented. I agree that it was a completly irresponsible move on his part, but it was also your decision. You think he should be in jail for what he did? I think probation was quite enough, as a punishment for his irrisponsibility. I agree that he sounds like a royal asshole, but you shouldn't place all the blame on him.

[BlAzInIt4:20]

Well my ex was 24 and i was 16, we were togeather for 3 years. After the first year we started to get verably abusive. Then it turned into physical abuse. I have never actually beat her but i have defended myself from her. She was the first to lay hands. She choked me out in her room and i remember falling to the grounf crying thinking how could she do this to me... she came over and held my head in her lap saying sorry.

Our relationship has never been the same since then,

I woul djsut punch her in the arm or something or pin her on the ground because she liked to hit and throw shit. She would push me so hard i would go flying. Im glad that's over with though.. i made a thread saying i missed her and I do.. but i dont need her.. She lost a good thing and in the end she will relize wtf she has done..

Stay strong BFA !

All we have is ourselfs in this world, and their's no point in being unhappy..

[GraziLovesMary]

This thread makes me sad

[420MissHighTimes420]

this thread makes me sad aswell. My heart goes out to all of u who have been through or are going through an abusive relationship.

When I was in 10th grade I dated a guy who was 19 a senior for the second time. He was a big coke head, a sociopath, and a big manipulator. He made me belive that he actually was in love with me. I think he really might have been (I was madly in love with him) but from all of the things he did to himself he was horrible at showing it. One day he would be so sweet, spoil me, treat me like a princess, then the next day he would be flipping out on me. Which I guess makes sense wut with all of the cocain and all. Twice he hurt me so bad. The first time was in feb wen I was 15 - only had sex with two guys and got really attached from it and I wasnt a slut - but one night he fucked me taped it, showed it to everyone. Ruined my repuation. Im proud of myself for going to the same school for 3 years after it because for a good 6 months I would walk down the hall way and all the guys would be asking me out because they thought I was a whore, and all the girls would yell SLUT WHORE PARIS HILTON and PORN STAR at me. It made me feel disgusting.

I have never told anyone this befor but I feel like it, mayeb it should go in the confession forum but w.e. One night after I had gotten back with him it was his birthday so he got the sickest hotel room in NYC at the four seasons. It was amazing. He ruined the speacical night by getting too fucked up. He threw and ash tray at me at one point. Thankfully he was os fucked up it missed me. After he did that I went to lay on the coach, and he kept trying to pull off my pants. I kept yellign at him to stop. And he lost it. Grabbed both of my hands put them behind my back threw me on the floor ripped my pants off and my sweater. Started screaming and cursing at me telling me I was a nasty whore and everyone was right and all of these terrible and untrue things, that I was dumb enough to take to heart. I kept trying to fight him. I managed to get one of my hands loose and starrted digging my nails into him, and all of a sudden he turned into a ragger and just lost it picked me up slammed me agaianst the wall and rapped me for a long time. I didnt kno wut to do after that. I always blamed everythign he did to me on the drugs and they were a lot to blame but it was him and his cowardly ways.He made me feel so dirty and useless. Im crying now just thinking about it. I hate it I saw him recently and still wanted him. He was so obssessed with feeling powerful that he never cared how miserable and degraded me made me feel.

If you abuse women let me tell you right now it makes you a COWARD to have to beat on a innocent woman or man is wrong. Get power from doing good!