Okay, update. Talked to my doctor about it, she said she is comfortable with us using condoms as long as we used spermacide with them (like, the separate kind, not the kind that is pre-layered on the condom itself) and I am also doing the basal body temperature thing although it will take a few months to really see if any pattern is going on with my cycle.
TheSmokingMonkey Reviewed by TheSmokingMonkey on . Birdgirl - birth control option for me? I have decided (with my husband) that I should stop taking the pill because it kills my libido. But we do NOT want kids. We are still young, though, so when he offered to get a vasectomy, I told him NO, because we may change our minds and I don't want to try to reverse a surgery. We don't mind using condoms but we are afraid they won't be effective enough. I don't want to do an IUD; I don't prefer a diaphragm but would be willing to try it and see how it goes. How effective is the Rating: 5