I have decided (with my husband) that I should stop taking the pill because it kills my libido.

But we do NOT want kids. We are still young, though, so when he offered to get a vasectomy, I told him NO, because we may change our minds and I don't want to try to reverse a surgery.

We don't mind using condoms but we are afraid they won't be effective enough.

I don't want to do an IUD; I don't prefer a diaphragm but would be willing to try it and see how it goes.

How effective is the temperature-taking method? I was thinking that along with condoms might be okay but I don't know how effective it is.

Help?
TheSmokingMonkey Reviewed by TheSmokingMonkey on . Birdgirl - birth control option for me? I have decided (with my husband) that I should stop taking the pill because it kills my libido. But we do NOT want kids. We are still young, though, so when he offered to get a vasectomy, I told him NO, because we may change our minds and I don't want to try to reverse a surgery. We don't mind using condoms but we are afraid they won't be effective enough. I don't want to do an IUD; I don't prefer a diaphragm but would be willing to try it and see how it goes. How effective is the Rating: 5