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neither really, lately we've had sex but the same old sex, he's on top but he's not nessesarily dominant. Then what I try to take the reins he cacks out on me. Like last night I brought a drink to bed and had left over ice, but that didn't exactly work out. Then other nights I get dressed up for when he comes home and have this great "lay down so I can fuck you" plan and it always falls through and I end up back in clothes instead of naked. I also like to be ravaged and have him have his way but.. never mind this is turning into a rant.

Long story short we both want to spice it up but when it comes down to it the other is on a different page.

That's it! I want kinky sex and I'm getting it tonight even if I have to tie him down and gag him!