Are you dominant in the bedroom?

[BabyFacedAbortion]

ahahhaha I LOVE it!!

[JaggedEdge]

I'm the dominate one about 97% of the time. I love being in control in bed and my g/f prefers being submissive. It works out great for us.

[JaggedEdge]

God damnit... I didn't realize this was in womens issues... This board needs to not show up in the fucking new posts section. I was wondering why all the women on this site were talking about their bitches lol.

[Dro_Princess]

If we had to break it down into percentages, I'd probably go with exactly the same one you chose for you and your husband, Dro Princess, him 70% and me 30%. Maybe 60%/40% occasionally. By dominant do you mean taking the lead, initiating sex, being the one in control, controlling the activity? Because if you mean actual domination/submissive master-slave role-playing, then we haven't ever really done that. For some reason, that doesn't have much appeal for me, and it even makes me a little uneasy.

Yes Im talking about more of being in control. My husband isnt really into whips and chains he hates being tied up. He kinda freaked out when I handcuffed him and blindfolded him one night. It was so funny.

[birdgirl73]

I was hoping that was what it meant. I've actually used the tie-up approach with scarves before on my husband, and he loved that since it was part of the I'm-in-charge seduction, which he likes to watch play out. That was with our last bed where wrist attachment was more possible on the headboard. On the one we have now, the posts are too far apart for comfortable tying. I could only do that on our current bed if I wanted to stretch his arms uncomfortably far apart. Which I don't. (Not very frequently, at least!)

[Pipe Dreams]

Well, as a guy Im dominant most of the time, but I know a couple girls who take charge in the bed, and to me, thats a HUGE turnon. So is biting.


So there ya go.

EDIT: Bloddy womens issues...

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

I was hoping that was what it meant. I've actually used the tie-up approach with scarves before on my husband, and he loved that since it was part of the I'm-in-charge seduction, which he likes to watch play out. That was with our last bed where wrist attachment was more possible on the headboard. On the one we have now, the posts are too far apart for comfortable tying. I could only do that on our current bed if I wanted to stretch his arms uncomfortably far apart. Which I don't. (Not very frequently, at least!)

Use longer ties. Pantyhose are nice.

[birdgirl73]

Good idea, Mrs. G! I'll keep that in mind. I have a bag of worn out pantyhose that I've cut the legs out of. I normally use them to tie my staked tomato plants in the summertime. But I'll just set a couple of pairs aside for Dave . . . . he'd be very into that if I resurrected that game. He certainly was last time. You always have the best suggestions, Mrs. G., especially when it comes to kink of various types.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

LOLOLOL! Thank you...I think.:wtf:

[WordUpMuffin]

ohhh I like this thread! I would say it's 50/50 for me, sometimes I'm more dominate/sumbissive. I remember the first boy I broke in haha I must have been 13 (we didn't have sex but it was very sexual ) We bit each other hard, I drew blood with my nails from his back, we would cut each other together as well (something I don't do anymore or atleast havent been offered in years haha). He would choke me after i told him too and we would both smack each other around pretty hard haha. Funny thing is he moved away and moved back to where I live now not too long ago and I have been fooling around with him lately hahah.