need advice on a girl baddly!!!

[Genuine17]

background

i dated this girl for maybe 4-5 months, before we dated she pretty much used me for sex, seriously i didn't even want to she would put me in a position where i could not say no. shes kind of crazy like diagnosed with bipolar disorder but i still loved her and liked being with her, rather than just the sex, her not so much at the beginning that is.

well she lied to me A LOT. cheated on me actually, she told me at the end of the relationship i tried getting over it but i couldn't find myself able too. i was really shaken up about it. i tried being the best boyfriend i could even with the lying and usually made fun of me for anything i did. Always said i sucked at music and mind that music is my main goal in life.

I couldn't even say hi to a girl without getting it shoved in my face by her and bitched at her. Everyone gets jealous i understand, but it was what she did that made me mad, she would talk to other guys infront of me, hug every guy she saw before i even got one. Would call ex-boyfriends and be on the phone with them for 30 minutes right in front of me while i just sat there and had to listen.

so i eventually broke up with her maybe 4 weeks ago. this was absolute hell i will say. ( i sit next to her in 4 classes) for a week straight she would cry through out the entire day and plead for me to take her back. i just wouldn't. About a week or two after she started calling me while having sex with other guys and shes really into harder drugs now, opium, acid, shrooms, cocaine, not to much harder but when she goes out everyday to do them than yes.

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this is where i need advice,
she is in the hospital now for depression because of me, thats how broken up she is about it still. I feel awful undescrible never felt soo bad in my life. She called me and told me that i was the reason she was there and i was the reason she no longer goes to school and shes never hated someone so badly.

I dont know what to do like i cant just break away from her... ive tried

Genuine17 Reviewed by Genuine17 on 02-21-2007. need advice on a girl baddly!!! background i dated this girl for maybe 4-5 months, before we dated she pretty much used me for sex, seriously i didn't even want to she would put me in a position where i could not say no. shes kind of crazy like diagnosed with bipolar disorder but i still loved her and liked being with her, rather than just the sex, her not so much at the beginning that is. well she lied to me A LOT. cheated on me actually, she told me at the end of the relationship i tried getting over it but i couldn't Rating: 5

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Listen, I dated this girl once who was severely bipolar (CURRENTLY on lithium)...she was obsessive, depended and yet a total cunt, much like your girl sounds like. I broke up with her numerous t imes and she'd always con me back, while she didn't go to the hospital, she cut hersey badly, showed me and started doing meth. She blamed me. It's literally been 3 years and she STILLS contacts me, trying to get with me, and when I turn her down she messages me or calls me a few days later saying she's started drugs again or some shit.

Basically, while it may be hard..you really need to lose all contact with her, she's just going to bring you down emotionally/mentally and possibly physically. it's not worth the prolonged pain.

[Genuine17]

sounds like her, she too was on lithium
yeah i will try thanks for the advice a lot!!

[Matt the Funk]

Coming from a pretty severely bi-polar person, I can say she probally doesn't mean what she does, and you should try not to feel to hurt, but tell her to fuck off man.

[Samwhore]

leave her, you must, it looks like shes ruining your life. yes you feel bad, but you must get over that and numb your feelings toward her. Stop feeling bad for a girl who is ruining your life. its hard to be with someone who is bipolar, with all the mood swings and everything, dont feel sorry, once she takes her pills and gets better, youll be happy that shes no longer with you, and youll feel a lot better without her too.

[Genuine17]

thanks you guys are awesome!!

[Samwhore]

we are awesome

[JackdaWack]

Yo fuck that bitch! seriously. Its her own fault or rather her own problems that put her there, obviously if she cared about you, she would have showed it, and didnt. Not only did she not show u caring gestures but she threw crap all up in your face when she did the same thing, controling bitches man all they want is control. They need to feel like they have a puppet, and when there puppet ups and leaves they got nothing. All this little things she could have done, she didnt and u couldnt have done anything else, lesson learned for a new relationship i say. Go find a nice girl that will treat u right, and to hell with anyone who just wants you there for there own amusement.

[kdspecial]

Coming from a pretty severely bi-polar person, I can say she probally doesn't mean what she does, and you should try not to feel to hurt, but tell her to fuck off man.

I agree I have had a similar situation. You can always hope somone can change when they say they will or asy they want too. But it takes time it will never happen over night.

you ither accect the fact that thats how she is.. Or tell her to beat it and don't look back for your own safty...

At this point I think you ahve suffered enough.. Drugs can't help her ither.. they will only make it worse for her. You don't need that kind of BS in your life.

kd

[yoda]

not even remotely worth it to get back with her. lose her.