I always try to learn from the past instead of dwelling on it because dwelling doesnt do anything for you except get you down. You cant change the past, but you can change the future. There is someone out there for everyone. Look at how many people get married. Most of the people that dont get married have some kind of issue. The only way to find that right person is to date girls that you are interested in. Just let life take its course. Ive never been in a real relationship....and im 20, kinda pathetic. oh well im kinda shy. I met this girl recently that i really like and im trying to take her out but she is playin hard to get. I know that i will eventually get her out cause i know she likes me too. I plan on getting married some day. Mabe this is the girl that im goin 2 marry. Probably not but you never know. Im sure you have heard before that when you meet the right one you will know. I dont really understand that, but i think that if a guy and a girl love eachother the same, they have a more unique bond than if the guy loved her more than she loved him. I dont know, im just high right now and my mind is racing.