Is it me or do i have problems?

[birdgirl73]

Hey now, I kind of said that, just not as well. I think that is likely the main problem. I have had that happen with girls I was dating, they started feeling like they were being used for sex and started acting that way.

I see that you did indeed ask that general question, and I apologize for having scanned the previous responses so quickly that I didn't notice that. I would have acknowledged your idea in my thread, too, had I seen that on my first reading!