No one else has raised this question, so I will. Is there any chance that all you've been interested in lately is sex and nothing else like what's going on with her, with the romance, with going out, with relationship matters other than sex? Because sometimes if a girl feels like she's only being pursued for sex and isn't getting any of the emotional or romantic attention she needs, she'll hold out in the sex department. The different genders just have very different takes on sex and love. Y'all equate sex with love and acceptance. And we generally need to feel love and acceptance before we want to put out sexually. It can complicate things sometimes.