Feeling poorly about yourself is a bad place to start (Cuz you never know forsure if your performance is the problem),,, its hard not to do but it really is the worst mind state to be in for this situation.

Its great to talk about stuff but the last thing you want to do is come off sounding like a complainer or a low self esteem individual in the Sac. Girls hate guys with no confidence. Even if they say they don't they really do...Unconciously

From my experince which isn't a whole lot. But a few long relationships, Where yes the sex got to the point where it was differnet than it was when we started dating. (which is natural)

you gotta just switch it right up. Like if Romance is her thing try that// but For me the best Sex is unexpected and doens't take much pre work its just timeing...... And somtimes.. depending on your Girl.. You have to take it... I prolly take some Flack from some people when I say that but I mean it. Its true. I don't mean Rape or abuse, and the type of girl is a huge factor here when I say this, but somtimes you gotta give her no choice but to induldge in sex iwth you. its worked for me... Its all about how you approach her or (Your Attck)

Girls somtimes enjoy guys who show the power and what better place to show it than in the bed, Im not talking freaky shit.. leather chains and Whips.. not that theres anything wrong there ither whatever floats your boat. I mean just taking control and showing her your really into her by saying nice dirty stuff and touching her. Well its kinda like Nice gropping.

Like my Gf will be getting ready to go somwhere. and she may undress for a second to put on new jeans. Ill pick that time to grab her from behind. start groping her and then tell her shes beautiful and take control, She knows what i want. and she then is turned on by my presence As the "Male Alfa" from what i can tell anyways.. There is the odd time where she will be like Fuk off... but still She likes the gesture and feels sexy or Irresistable. But somtimes they just don't let ya have it.. Its just life.. she might be ina hurry or whatnot.

Another good time to jump into actiion is when they are getting into the shower.. Let them go in.. all the while you plan your attack.. then jump in She'll be like what are you doing... then kiss her tell her you WANt her and you coudn't control your animal urge... (in whatever words you choose) I like funny so im always refering to animal instinct and stuff... whatever works for you as a couple. Sometimes hse'll kick me out... but most times I stay and we have fun...

Ither way you can't be blamed for trying if you do it tastfully.. With these type of surprise controled Attacks...(im gonna keep using the animal references) She can really only be left with no other feelings besides... Wow im irresistable, sexy and Loved.. I made him stop what he was doing because he got so turned on when I took off my clothes to change.. or whatnot... or if shes a Bitch she just might find it annoying. thats personallyity thing .... It happens... move on...

I could be totally wrong here... but it has worked for me.. I feel most girls like you to be in control. it makes them feel safe and cared for.. Sex is a natural animal instinct. Since I satrted looking at it in that sense I started having better sex.. and funner sex too... there is no better place to show her you love and care about her and can make her feel safe than through sex.. because her animal instinct will kick in too.. It always does for everyone... Thats why we all love it....

We are just animals.... hahahha

Well thats was a lot of typing,, I hope you can figure out what my points are... Try it... Im telling you Uncontrolled Sex is the best.. Even if you ahve planned your attack out in your head for 10 mins... TO her it wasn't planned which makes it exciting and fun....

Kd