I agree the problem could be your lack of 'performance' Goldhead but also, as an 'older guy here' it is also possible her lack of sex drive could be medically or psychologically related.


My advice is to just have a very blunt talk with her. Let her know how you feel just like you said it here and just ask her point blank:

- Is there something -I- could do different

- Do you just not have any 'desire'

If it is the desire maybe she would be willing to see a gynecologist about it to help identify if there is something medically that could be done or determine if it is psychological (and maybe recommend a good shrink)


Of course if you're not that serious about her, then I advise you to dump her and move on. Most girls I've been with had either the same or HIGHER sex drive then me. On average (atleast in the beginning) sex atleast once a day is a mutual thing (some girls I fucked on average of 3 - 4 times day with 7x being my 'high score' LoL). What I'm trying to say is if you really like her and this is a big deal seek some professional help... If not cut your losses now and move on.