Is it me or do i have problems?

[benagain]

How long have you been with this girl? I know that back in the day me and the misses used to hump like rabbits every free chance we got.
5 years of marriage later and we still get it on frequently, but we don't have at it every time we're alone. We still have to eat dinner and do laundtry and whot not.

Plus you're a guy. Guys think about sex constantly and once started can't stop.

I've found that women can be in the middle of sex and one little thing (phone call, knock on the door, whatever) happens and she's out in a snap.

benagain Reviewed by benagain on 02-22-2007. Is it me or do i have problems? when ever me and my gf get together it always seems as if i want sex and she dont want it. it kinda makes me feel unwanted we have argued about it loads i just feel really unwanted. she tells me once a week is all she wants but it aint good enough for me can any woman tell me how shes thinking!!? Rating: 5

[birdgirl73]

No one else has raised this question, so I will. Is there any chance that all you've been interested in lately is sex and nothing else like what's going on with her, with the romance, with going out, with relationship matters other than sex? Because sometimes if a girl feels like she's only being pursued for sex and isn't getting any of the emotional or romantic attention she needs, she'll hold out in the sex department. The different genders just have very different takes on sex and love. Y'all equate sex with love and acceptance. And we generally need to feel love and acceptance before we want to put out sexually. It can complicate things sometimes.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

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[benagain]

No one else has raised this question, so I will. Is there any chance that all you've been interested in lately is sex and nothing else like what's going on with her, with the romance, with going out, with relationship matters other than sex? Because sometimes if a girl feels like she's only being pursued for sex and isn't getting any of the emotional or romantic attention she needs, she'll hold out in the sex department. The different genders just have very different takes on sex and love. Y'all equate sex with love and acceptance. And we generally need to feel love and acceptance before we want to put out sexually. It can complicate things sometimes.

Awesome post. :thumbsup:

[JaggedEdge]

No one else has raised this question, so I will. Is there any chance that all you've been interested in lately is sex and nothing else like what's going on with her, with the romance, with going out, with relationship matters other than sex? Because sometimes if a girl feels like she's only being pursued for sex and isn't getting any of the emotional or romantic attention she needs, she'll hold out in the sex department. The different genders just have very different takes on sex and love. Y'all equate sex with love and acceptance. And we generally need to feel love and acceptance before we want to put out sexually. It can complicate things sometimes.

Hey now, I kind of said that, just not as well. I think that is likely the main problem. I have had that happen with girls I was dating, they started feeling like they were being used for sex and started acting that way.

[birdgirl73]

Hey now, I kind of said that, just not as well. I think that is likely the main problem. I have had that happen with girls I was dating, they started feeling like they were being used for sex and started acting that way.

I see that you did indeed ask that general question, and I apologize for having scanned the previous responses so quickly that I didn't notice that. I would have acknowledged your idea in my thread, too, had I seen that on my first reading!