Right or wrong match?

[TallulahGreen]

I didn't say I hated him, first of all.

And secondly, he DOES have many admirable qualities, but the bad outweigh the good. I was teetering on a decision, and was asking for advice. Please don't mistake my posts for general rantings...

You just answered you own question there...
...the bad outweighs the good-the is the number one reason you should not get involved.

TallulahGreen Reviewed by TallulahGreen on 02-20-2007. Right or wrong match? I'm 19, and I've been single now for about 4 years. Nothing big. Sure, I get lonely sometimes, but it's fine. A few days ago, I met this guy who is also 19 through a friend who works with him. He's got hippie-like hair (I love long hair), he's INTELLIGENT, he makes a lot of money, and he's kind. I don't want to seem too picky, but he compliments me WAY too much. And he's clingy as hell. When I get online, he IMs me within 2 seconds of signing on, and won't stop pestering me if I'm busy, Rating: 5

[Veratyr Star]

I didn't say I hated him, first of all.

And secondly, he DOES have many admirable qualities, but the bad outweigh the good. I was teetering on a decision, and was asking for advice. Please don't mistake my posts for general rantings...

I didn't think you were ranting. I was just giving my advice that you should realize that, with the bad out weighing the good, you should find another.

[tek(bdm)]

well its obvious the dude likes you. Now no one is perfect but from what i read you obviously like him or you wouldnt post that thread. I think you should go out with the guy since u havent been in a relationship for like 4 years but the kid is a philosopher he's smart, and obviously very intellectual. Which means open minded, get with him make him smoke alil' and see how things turn out. Now i dont think u wanna wait another 4 for a crackhead or sumone penniless.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

no.

just...no.

he seems sketchy as hell, maybe he'd be a good friend instead?

[b0Ng h!tz 4 mE]

I would say have a fling with him but you did say hes clingy and that would just end up not so good. I guess the best way of telling him without hurting his feelings or owt wud be to say some shit like "im just not ready to be in a relationship yet"..

but yeah dosnt sound like you like him that much lol

and as BFA said he seems sketchy as FUCK

[Purple Banana]

I'm not a fling kind of person... I don't want to waste time on a relationship if it's just for trial, kind of like having a relationship just to be in one; that's not me.

I don't even really want to be friends with him. He's just that odd.