Thanks, Mrs. G. As usual, I'm sure I said too much. And I don't want to seem anti-baby or anti-reproduction. I adore babies. I love my own, wanted to have more than one, and to this day still crave to adopt the others I see. Heck, I think I want to be a pediatrician. But parenting is the most frighteningly hard job there is, and emotionally and physically it's far harder on moms than on dads, especially during pregnancy and the first three to five years.