update. the 6 seedlings that popped out on the 4th showed me the answer to my question. they were all halfway under the 2 new lights that i bought and half way under 2 of the old lights after a couple days the little ones were ALL leaning towards the new lights. so i guess the answer is yes they do go bad for growing. thanks to everyone. but if you know what is wrong with my plant other than the lights please do inform me.
Thanks,
JC