some good advice up there^^^^^

the truth is the best road,,,nothing worse than getting in deeper... you got 7 weeks to make a difference and the good advice is to work at it... don't offer anything right away but by the same token don't hide it if she wants and asks for it...

I always think this way... things happen for a reason and there is always a positive side to everything,,,so if your feeling like shit look for something positive in it...

Edit: I posted this before I read your last post...