I just got busted. What am i going to do...

[LittLeWinG]

This has been the most fucked up day of my life.

I rang up my mum to talk to her (I live in a boarding school) and she said she found my bag in my room. I was like "oh no..." because this bag had my bong, my cigs, my weed, my papers and my roaches... allong with a bunch of other things i can't remember.

Welllll..... she is majorly pissed off that i lied to her for so long.... and she thinks i am a drug addict and that i am causing my self serious mental damage.

I am now only allowed to go out to parties once every 5 weeks, i am not allowed to come home untill the holidays (which is 7 weeks away.... my schools only 45 minutes drive from home btw which i catch a bus)

So this means im stuck in this boarding house for a 7 weeks, not allowed to go out, im fucking stuck.

It's going to be incredibly hard to ever smoke anymore. So i think i have to say farewall to mary jane, untill i leave school anyway.

I feel like crying at the moment, but im trying to be strong.

What can i do?

I can't compromise with mother, because she doesnt beleive anything i say anymore. AND she is very ignorant and narrow minded, so i cant convince her weed isnt a bad thing... she wouldnt beleive me even if i showed scientifical evidence.

So what can i do.....

LittLeWinG Reviewed by LittLeWinG on 02-14-2007. I just got busted. What am i going to do... This has been the most fucked up day of my life. I rang up my mum to talk to her (I live in a boarding school) and she said she found my bag in my room. I was like "oh no..." because this bag had my bong, my cigs, my weed, my papers and my roaches... allong with a bunch of other things i can't remember. Welllll..... she is majorly pissed off that i lied to her for so long.... and she thinks i am a drug addict and that i am causing my self serious mental damage. I am now only allowed Rating: 5

[Skink]

First off take a deep breath... you have the internet so that's cool... dude just sleep on it and don't draw any quick conclusion or jump to anything you might regret...

You will be asked so I will... Why was your shit at home where she could find it???

[xxxhazexxx]

thats fucked up dude,the 7 weeks your at school buckle down work really hard then when you get home try and regain her trust bee good show her that mary not the devil and even if you cant smoke for a while you have got to get moms on your side goodluck dude

[SonicBloom]

You've just reached a point most stoners have to reach where your parents become aware. My mother is the most conservative woman you could imagine to meet, she looks deep into your eyes and makes you knees shake. She reminds me a lot of the mother from Malcom in the Middle. She drug tested me weekly for a year, grounding me, taking away my car, what have you, ever time I failed. The I only passed one, and it was after a tremendous effort. Eventually she accepted it wasn't going to stop and talked with me about it. I was able to make her say out loud that "alcohol is a lot more dangerous that marijuana", and she meant it. It's pretty much don't ask, don't tell now. My father though has shown me a side I never knew he had, but probably should have. He's given me weed a few times, and when we take this road trip to Seattle in March, I'm going to smoke him out. It's funny, we never really bonded until I moved out. :stoned:

[LittLeWinG]

First off take a deep breath... you have the internet so that's cool... dude just sleep on it and don't draw any quick conclusion or jump to anything you might regret...

You will be asked so I will... Why was your shit at home where she could find it???

I have taken so many deep breaths in the last half hour.

And im not jumping to any conclusions. My mum is crazy and she only listens to her self. My last year of school is going to be so bad..... it really sucks too because the past 6 months has been the best time of my life, because i had made so many friends, i had a great social life and i balanced it hugely with my work.... now all i have left is my work and i feel so lonely.

I left my shit in my cupboard under a bunch of clothes and stuff.... because i came home on monday to get some books, i smoked that night and forgot to hide my stuff outside. So i left it in my cupboard and i was gonna come home today and hide it.... but she found it this morning. Stupid move by my part i know.

I'm just going to have to work my fucking ass off and try to make her happy. Maybe she will be more leniant in a few months.

I seriously dont know what to think or say.

[LittLeWinG]

This isn't fair...

I'm a nice person, i dont have any enemies, i try my best to work hard, i see things through other peoples perspectives, i think about other people when most people think about themselves, i love humanity, i love people, i hate seeing pain, i love peace.

Is this justified I dont see how i deserve this.

I dont want to look like a whinging bitch... but i dont know how else to express what im feeling.

[Skink]

some good advice up there^^^^^

the truth is the best road,,,nothing worse than getting in deeper... you got 7 weeks to make a difference and the good advice is to work at it... don't offer anything right away but by the same token don't hide it if she wants and asks for it...

I always think this way... things happen for a reason and there is always a positive side to everything,,,so if your feeling like shit look for something positive in it...

Edit: I posted this before I read your last post...

[Skink]

The real prob here is society is driving home that pot is the devil and like above it took a long time for his mom to come around... Don't look at it as I don't deserve this... pity will not help,,,planning your next move will... Like I said get some sleep and think clearly,,,you really can't now cause your all kinds of emotions now...

[burnable]

if your mom's like my radical conservative parents, you'll only get on her good side by agreeing with everything she says, and doing everything she asks. I feel ya when you say that she won't digest the logical arguments in favor of cannabis. I smoked off and on from age 12 to 17, then quit for 5 years, and now I've been tokin again for 2 or 3 years. I'm real glad I had the sabbatical; it proved that I saw the world through fully sober eyes and still in solemn moral conscience chose to smoke again. So I say be glad you have an opportunity to prove to yourself and the world that you can be sober and functional and still choose to smoke and be just as functional later on. Oh, the reason I stopped for 5 years is cuz cops busted me and my homie and brought me home to tell my 'rents at 3 am.

[slipknotpsycho]

meh littlewing i dunno what to tell you man, i like you so i hate to hear this shit....

and i know it's not what you want to hear.. but damnit you really only have two options.. quit and deal with it, or try to get through her thick head with some cold hard facts...

there's not too many things you can do.. pick up and move on, or stand up for what you feel is right/what you feel is right for you...

well technicallly you can run from it all, and never talk to her again.. but that's not going to do too much good...