I'v been here only a little while but I have seen similar sites w/o mods and no one gets a chance to speak for all teh ranting, complaining, doing what they want, and making 500 threads about the same thing. You don't like what happened to you learn from it and go on trust me as long as you are vertical and have a pulse it won't be the last time. What makes you a responsible person is how you react to conflict (ask Ghandi, Lincoln, or a hollocoust survivor) responsible people become responsible users, without those we will never change a law or a mind.
my 2.