Quote Originally Posted by slowlickitysplit
I got rid of the 260 pound abusive ex-wife two years ago. I haven't lost any weight but I feel more limber. The kids and I laugh much more and wrestle. I am much more likely to sit on the floor with them to play a game or watch tv then back then. Maybe I lost emotional weight? Either way, I feel much better just knowing the kids are safe and that I did the hard thing for the right reason and it's worked out best for them. I probably look my full 46 years and then some, but I like myself and feel so much better about myself.

- Slow -
BINGO! You've hit the nail on the head. Good for you Slow, for getting yourself and your babes out of a bad situation.

Folks, life is too short to spend it with soul sucking vampires. Remember, it is better to be alone than to wish that you were.