I joined an aerobics class and stopped drinking soda and eating fast food. I lost 20 lbs, I love the way I look, yeah, im not the prettiest/skinniest girl in the world, but in not the ugliest/fattest either, my view is, if a guy doesnt like me for what I look like, then he doesnt deserve me, when I change something, I do it, whats the worst that could happen?