It Takes time dude... Its all up to you. I would avoid any contact with her though and Delete the Myspace shit... That will just keep mind fuking you. I had to do that with My Ex,,, MSN Myspace all that stuff.. It was really the best way for me to deal with it. I dropped off all her stuff at her parents house. And never looked back..

I felt sad and upset, But I picked the right times to do so. You control you... Its hard to practice but really If you don't wanna feel sad don't feel sad. Its hard to get cuz its so simple. It took me a good month to fully understand it when I was explained it by the DOCTOR... A few things I took out of those sessions were,,, perscription Drugs weren't the answer...Feeling like somthing was wrong with me wasn't the answer...

I finally understood that.... PERfection does not exsist but there is nothign wrong with striving for it,,,,

and as well If you can live with no Exspectations you can get real far with relationships.. I understand its almost impossible to have no exspectations, But theres alot of things I exspected before from my Lady and when I didn't get it I just felt hurt. I don't do that anymore. I try and not expect things if they happen than its just a bonus.

And when dating again... Cuz you will get there,,, ((((It will happen trust me.. I was 25 as well and 4 years into a relationship almost engaged when it happened to me))) Rember this...

The Hardest part of a broken Heart
Isn't the Ending so much as the Start
The tragity starts from the very first spark
Losing your mind for the sake of your heart

Don't let that happen cuz it wont work out... Have fun chill with some buds again, hit those bars, Go to a rock concert, But most importantly... reflect on yourself and Do some things that you couldn't do while ina relationship.. You know Take that trip to that place that your GF would not dare go to you with or disapprove of you going there.

I started working out like mad when it happened to me I put all my anger into Weights and looking fuking Ripped.. I got in such good shape,,, I made a schedual And I follweed it to a TEee.... Woke up early started swimming before work. After that I wrote ina dairy for 10 mins.,, When I got home from work I lifted weights for a hour,, Then I did whatever till nighttime and Blazed most of the time. and then wrote in the dairy again before I went to bed. I did that for 2 months striaght. It was the most fun I had had in 4 years. Then I started dating again. and the whole cycle began again.

New Gurl serious relationship, Living together taking of Marriage... All that in 2 years after the Big Breakup...

You'll figure it out... You really don't have any other options anyways right?

We all have your back on this one...

kd