It can take a really long time to get over someone you really love, you may never completely get over them. It's hard and its going to hurt, but at least you found out now rather than later down the road. Tell her to stop calling for a few months. Being friends with her right now will just be a constant reminder of the hurt and you need time to heal. Good luck. You're still young and there really are lots of girls out there, even if you don't think you want any of them right now.
napolitana869 Reviewed by napolitana869 on . How Long did it take you to get over A breakup? Long story short, together 4.5 years, engaged, close, girl says she fell out of love a week after new years, been bad last couple months I guess with fighting and all. How long does it usually take to get over somthing like this?? im 25, and this was my most serious relationship honestly and was never planning on getting back into the "dating" game... Post up some opinions!!! Rating: 5