Quote Originally Posted by RobPA
Long story short, together 4.5 years, engaged, close, girl says she fell out of love a week after new years, been bad last couple months I guess with fighting and all. How long does it usually take to get over somthing like this?? im 25, and this was my most serious relationship honestly and was never planning on getting back into the "dating" game...

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I totally know what ya mean..My wife, and I just broke up almost 2 months ago (I know sometimes thats all i talk about, sorry) and I'm finding it really hard to get over and to move on, but then again I don't want anyone right now, I need to focus on my life, and rebuild it in a sense. I personally say just focus on yourself first and forget about the dating game for now. I've allways found that true meaningfull relationships happen when you least expect them. But yeah it takes a long time to get over someone you have been with for a long period of time...and the whole stayin friend's thing can be difficult as well. Amazingly me and my now x wife are being able to be civil towards each other, hell I've somehow managed to stay living here since we broke up,(money issues) but I'll be out in May 1st. but yeah anyway, wish ya luck, and hope you can get through your break-up, and be able to move on.