Quote Originally Posted by RobPA
Thanks for the advice. The hard part is she keeps saying how she wants to remain friends, but I am finding it extremely hard. Just stupid shit like seeing her myspace status as "single" and taking everything about me out of it.. Its like I dont want to be soem pathetic guy and let her walk all over me but she keeps tellin and calling me saying she still wants to be friends and stuff. The hardest thing is shes from Jersey right over the bridge and We goto a ton of the same concerts so its going to be almost impossible to avoid seeing her.
ohhh man..oh man. after reading that i gotta say my hearts going out to you, my girlfriend is/was pulling the same thing although it really is my fault and its enough to go crazy over, i think my girls gonna come around soon enough but if you dont get that lucky then theres always someone better out there i suppose, if she can "fall out of love" like that obviously she isnt the right one. its such a ridiculous proposal, you cant just love someone and go right back to friends! its like seeing and then losing your sight or losing your arms in an accident because you just cant function like normal after it. its kind of insulting to me also, i cant put my finger on the exact emotion but its something like embarrasment/hopelessnes/shame, fuck it. dont feel pathetic, or anything bad about yourself, its not your fault..and the most i can offer is whenever you start feeling upset, sit in a dark room and clear your mind as best you can. its what i do and it really helps with the lonieness and the longing. you need to take care of yourself before you take care of other things right now, so give yourself that time and try not to beat yourself up over it. its a bad situation, i know right now all you want is her, and honestly the only thing you can do about it is learn to move on, find someone else or take up a hobby and release the feelings through that.
hope i helped,
:baggy: herbs!
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