It might take longer to get over a short relationship than a longer one. Of course it really depends on how much was done for each other, how much you loved and truly cared for each other. Not being able to get those things in return is a horrible feeling, but you have to know when to say enough is enough. No matter who it is, you have to remain true to your convictions. Above all, make things very clear from the start. Communication can be tough sometimes because you're not sure how the other will respond, and many times things go unsaid and that will always cause problems down the road. The thing is you both will learn, and hopefully not make the same mistakes that you did again.

The whole "staying friends" thing can be good in most cases, depending of course on how things ended. Though if you say you would like to remain friends, it should also be made clear that you will require space for a while (if you need it). If the other doesn't seem to respect that, wants things to be "friend" status right away and gives up on the friendship right away if you say you need the space for a while, they are playing with you. Bad news.

Basically, don't let yourself get pushed around (no matter how strikingly amazing they are), and don't push others around. Karma is huge in relationships. Just keep it real. :hippy: