i tried to explain this somewhere else...it is just the general word, and it is not allowed here...it isnt that it is being offensively used, but it is hard to draw the line here, and when one person has it, everyone wants it, and then the people who will use it offensively chime in and it is just a battle we dont need, so, in closing, everyone is treated the same...2 of you had to change their avatars today, and one persons sig, and this is the only place i am having any trouble over it....thanks for taking care of it either way, it is appreciated...

princess