sometimes girls play games because they actually dont want the guy at all, they just want the attention.

now if we had to give a straight answer to, "do you want to go out with me?" and we said no - then the other party would be hurt and the fun would be over.

but if we dance around the answer, the party still has hope and the flirting can continue.

this is lesson 1 on how to avoid commitment.

lol.