This just makes my marriage even better! Those games, by both men and women were stupid and immature. If shes still playing the game at 21, you need to consider whether shes ever gonna shit or get off the pot! I was never much for games to begin with, I knew what I wanted and went for it. Sometimes to my sorrow, but I think thats probably beside the point.

The question is really how long are YOU willing to put up with it? Sorry, some of us just grow up faster than others and games are really just immaturity shining through.
A few of my friends are still playing that game and are still 'single' and their in their 30's. Maybe commitment just isnt a part of their genetic makeup, maybe its fear of the unknown, who knows.

More to the point I think is that some women are so afraid of being hurt they dont realize when they have a good thing untill its gone. If your really stuck on this girl, dont cut her off completely, but back off till she comes around.

I guess I just needed to vent at first, I'll be married 17 years on Dec 27 this year, and even after all these years Im still IN love with my husband, I cant imagine my life without Ken and If I'd have played silly games with him, I would have lost him for sure. Not all men are willing to put up with the hard to get thing.
I doubt this has helped any, but I needed to say something on the subject anyway.