ps: guys do it, too so dont let them fucking fool you.

hell, i learned most of the things i know from guys who have tried to use it on me. what you have to do when someone fucks you over is, instead of adding all of this depressing baggage to yourself, "oh woe is me im alone they hurt me i'll never trust anyoen again." learn what game they used, why, and how.. so then you know what to look out for in the future - and if you need to, you can use it for yourself (but thats bad and we wouldnt ever want to do that now would we?)