Don't they do that hormonal implant in the arm anymore? I believe it was the safest as far as infections go, they are limited to a place you can see them and take care of asap. I bet most Ob/gyn's will tell you (if they are being honest) not to do it. Ask your doc if she or his wife ever did it? Most likely not. They can be real dangerous, especially if you want children. Being baren is not pleasant and you are taking that risk! Is it worth it, I think not!

When you are finished with kids, etc. There is a relatively new procedure called Ablation (spelling), anyway, I had that and no periods! I was never so excited in my life. You still have the emotions, but done with the mess! Lucky for me, my cramps went away also. But, that was several years ago, don't think I'd be bothered with them much anymore.

I say explore all types of control. Absolutely, do not risk becoming infertile or your life! many women just do not like them, some find them uncomfortable and irritating. A lot come out about as fast as they were put in.

I would really re-read all the above, before you do it! Wanting a child and not being able to is about the most helpless feeling on earth! Not just for you, your potential mate, as well! You may want to think of him and what he thinks of it!

So, what did you do and what has been your experience? Ooops! Missing in Action, that may be an answer!