i was in that exact same situation, like, EXACT. now its all great though, we smoke and everything. you just have to educate her on it, obviously shes misinformed and you'd be doing her a great favor by showing her the truth on it. theres nothing wrong with smoking, but theres definitely something wrong with anyone trying to stop you from making an informed choice on it, and that includes the government, your parent and even her. so talk to her about it, be totally open to how you feel, and make sure you really connect with her and shell know it.

plus, how can you stand lying to her? i just couldnt take it anymore, its like she thought i was a different person then i really was. you have to be totally open and things should turn out much nicer.