not me i understood the story... and while i'm firmly against fighting a woman like that, the woman shouldn't antagonize the man....

i'm in no way saying it's ok, so don't get me wrong there ladies.. but if you already know a man is on the verge of losing his control, and about to hit you, or could be about to hit you, don't keep dragging it on, as hard as it may be for yal to let it go, you really should... cuz nearly every woman is going to get some kinda sympathy from nearly everyone once you push that guy over the edge.... and it's just not fair...

again, what he did was surely fucked up.... i've never hit a woman like that (yes i've hit a woman, i ain't gonna sit here and lie) and i never would... i'd sooner break my fist on a wall (our walls are sheetrock, then solid wood, so it's not that hard to do), then punch her dead in the face... and i HAVE done it before... i'm a bit more in control of my emotions at this age... but i used to have to punch a wall or steel or soemthing, just to break my fist, so i wouldnt' end up using it on a person... not the best way to deal with a problem i admit, but it sure kept me from bruising/bloodying up a female...

i'd have a serious sit-down with L.... if he's that damn mad, he needs to walk away (this is another thing i've seen the ladies have a problem with... if a man is walking the fuck away from you, it doesn't mean follow him and keep bitching at him, it doesn't mean he's 'lost' w/e you were arguing about and now is a good time to re-assure yourself of that... or continue whatever you're doing that made him walk away in the first place.. it means he's trying to seperate himself before he does something stupid he's going to regret later...)

again, hittin on women is wrong... and don't take this the wrong way (tho i know someone's bound to, so go ahead, i won't even respond, if you wanna take it out of context, that's your problem) some of you ladies ask for the shit.. you just don't know when to let something die, or drop... you keep on picking and picking at the guy, until he loses all self control... i'm not saying you deserve it (exactly..) but you are asking for trouble when you keep barking up that tree.... just know when to let shit go...