Are girls attracted to muscles?

[Prunedale]

try not to flatter yourself, dear. i didn't argue with your statement because i'm not on here everyday. you have no way of knowing how often girls stereotype guys compared to guys doing the same to girls. have you seen the posts on here from guys stating that they'd rather date a really hot girl with a bitchy personality vs. a ugly or plain girl with a great personality? or the way they talk about fat or ugly girls? if you weren't so stereotypical yourself, you would never have made that initial statement. anyone with experience with the opposite sex and even common sense would know that girls aren't just all about superficial attraction. some are, just like some guys are - but saying we all are like that? boy stop. if that were true, how do you explain ugly guys having girlfriends? fyi, my membername comes from a nickname i got a long time ago

OOOOOH heh. thought I'd rub it in for ya.

[Wesley Pipes]

try not to flatter yourself, dear. i didn't argue with your statement because i'm not on here everyday. you have no way of knowing how often girls stereotype guys compared to guys doing the same to girls.

well when quite alot of your friends are female, you get to knows these things

have you seen the posts on here from guys stating that they'd rather date a really hot girl with a bitchy personality vs. a ugly or plain girl with a great personality? or the way they talk about fat or ugly girls?

no i actually i haven't, but explain to me why that makes me the same as them please?

if you weren't so stereotypical yourself, you would never have made that initial statement.

again, explain to me how you can stereotype me by reading one post that i made... i stereotype girls the way i do because i have plenty reason to, every girl i've ever met have all been interested in one of the following: looks, money, cars, age (and i mean like 10+ years older kinda age).

anyone with experience with the opposite sex and even common sense would know that girls aren't just all about superficial attraction. some are, just like some guys are - but saying we all are like that? boy stop. if that were true, how do you explain ugly guys having girlfriends? fyi, my membername comes from a nickname i got a long time ago

i've had more experience than you might think... most of it bad, and so far i only know 1 girl whos not hung up on superficial attractions... thats what, 1 in my 22 years of life... oh yeah great odds huh? but atleast your right, not all girls are the same... and as for ugly guys... well i already said if not looks then money, cars, or the fact they're much older

but ask yourself a question, if in a bar, on a night out (assuming your single and looking), two guys giving you the eye, one ugly, one very good looking.... which one do u talk to first?

i'm pretty sure what the answer would be

Peace :hippy:

[shoi]

boo muscle... i cant be botherd to lift weights... im pretty skinny.... but i dont want to work out.... i seem fine imo

[blackbarbie]

well when quite alot of your friends are female, you get to knows these things



no i actually i haven't, but explain to me why that makes me the same as them please?



again, explain to me how you can stereotype me by reading one post that i made... i stereotype girls the way i do because i have plenty reason to, every girl i've ever met have all been interested in one of the following: looks, money, cars, age (and i mean like 10+ years older kinda age).






i've had more experience than you might think... most of it bad, and so far i only know 1 girl whos not hung up on superficial attractions... thats what, 1 in my 22 years of life... oh yeah great odds huh? but atleast your right, not all girls are the same... and as for ugly guys... well i already said if not looks then money, cars, or the fact they're much older

but ask yourself a question, if in a bar, on a night out (assuming your single and looking), two guys giving you the eye, one ugly, one very good looking.... which one do u talk to first?

i'm pretty sure what the answer would be

Peace :hippy:

does anyone else hear the violins playing in the background?

what's wrong with wanting the whole package? a well dressed, good-looking guy with a nice car - oh the horror! if you fit the qualifications i'm sure you wouldn't be whining. if you had the luxury of having options with women, i'm sure you wouldn't be running after a broke, homely girl who sweats gravy with a busted up 85 honda.

also, it's kind of ironic how you're the only guy complaining about this. if you've had bad luck with girls for 22 years, the common denominator is you honey. i know ugly guys with who don't drive bmws with girlfriends. their girlfriends obviously aren't perfect 10s, but they're also not alone, bitter, and judging all women on an internet message board. i'm getting the idea that you have so many problems with the opposite sex because you are trying to date out of your league.

and yes, if i was on a night out and i had a choice between an ugly guy and the fine one i would choose the fine one. that's human nature. if you asked me to choose between a guy that looked like reggie bush but treated me like shit and a ugly nerd with a heart of gold and i chose reggie, that would be shallow. i suppose if i gave you the same choice, you'd lie for the sake of this argument or debate, if you will, and say the ugly one right?

[Wesley Pipes]

...what's wrong with wanting the whole package?...


....i'm getting the idea that you have so many problems with the opposite sex because you are trying to date out of your league....

stop contradicting yourself please, its rather confusing... if someone wants the whole package then chances are they are dating out of their league because they themselves probably aren't the full package... most of us average people have to settle for what we can get rather than what we want... beside, wanting the whole package is vain and shallow simply because no-ones perfect...

personally i would'nt care if a girl had a car or house of her own or lots of money or whatever, and as for her looks, the shape of her body concerns me not, i like cute faces and nice eyes, aslong as she accepted me for who i am, then i am happy with that... god forbid i should meet someone who actually cares more about the person than their financial circumstances or ripped body, thats just wrong, every girl deserves the perfect guy.

and yeah your probably right that i'm the one to blame for not having much success with women, sorry for not bein the perfect guy. :wtf:

ahh whats the point in arguing... you will just think everything i say is lies, because i'm a guy... right

[blackbarbie]

stop contradicting yourself please, its rather confusing... if someone wants the whole package then chances are they are dating out of their league because they themselves probably aren't the full package... most of us average people have to settle for what we can get rather than what we want... beside, wanting the whole package is vain and shallow simply because no-ones perfect...

personally i would'nt care if a girl had a car or house of her own or lots of money or whatever, and as for her looks, the shape of her body concerns me not, i like cute faces and nice eyes, aslong as she accepted me for who i am, then i am happy with that... god forbid i should meet someone who actually cares more about the person than their financial circumstances or ripped body, thats just wrong, every girl deserves the perfect guy.

and yeah your probably right that i'm the one to blame for not having much success with women, sorry for not bein the perfect guy. :wtf:

ahh whats the point in arguing... you will just think everything i say is lies, because i'm a guy... right

did i say that money is more important than personality? it is possible to have all of the above. you know there are people who are good looking, financially secure, and with a good personality. all pretty people aren't evil. i get low self esteem vibes from you just from reading your posts. i shudder to imagine what you are like in real life. insecurity is unattractive.

"most of us average people have to settle for what we can get rather than what we want..."
that's sad that you think that way. what, you know that you aren't the "perfect guy" no one said you had to be so you'll go for any girl as long as she just accepts you? shit, i know i'm not perfect no one is but i'm not gonna date any guy that comes along just because he "accepts me". have some standards & fucking respect for yourself. btw, most "average" people don't consider being with their s.o as settling. i would hate to date a guy who thought that. "yeah she's not that great, but she's the best i can get so i'll stay with her". that's wonderful. have you ignored 95% of the posts on this thread? you don't have to be the perfect guy. most girls have said that they don't need a beefcake guy, as long as he is decently attractive and treats them right. like i said, you only call it vain and shallow because you can't do it.

and i don't think everything you say are lies because you're a guy. don't pull things out of your ass. i don't think i've said that all guys lie. men lie, women lie, children lie, everybody lies. in fact, i believe what you're saying to be the truth, that's the sad part. you can wallow in your self pity all you want and blame everyone else for your problem, but i'm only speaking the truth.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I like all boys (bodies and all), but I LOVE my boyfriend. He just happens to be extremely fit and muscular. He's strong and hard and solid and I absolutely adore that. I can cuddle up to him and he can hold me and I feel safe or he can literally throw me around and pick me up and do what ever he wants to me. I like that. I dunno, I really needed a guy who could make me feel physically safe and he does it for me, perfectly.