I go through phases, one year ill eat alot and put on weight to get bigger, the last 3 years ive weighed around 185. This year im already down to 145 and extreamly lean....kinda have the swimmers body. Since then ive had 2 ex gf's try to come back to big poppa. I think the thinner/ runner/ swimmer body is more attractive to girls.... although there are the chicks that definatly dig a big ass 250lb muscle head.