i'm not even gonna post our damn arguments o.0

some of them are so damn ridiculous, i look back afterwards and am like "jesus fucking christ why the hell did argue about that?!"

however, i often get irritated at her messiness.. (go figure i'm the 'clean one' yet somehow i'm the clean one and it irritates the living piss out of her if i don't spread out any wet clothing to 'dry'... cuz it causes mold??? i've had my clothes mold once and those things were soaked... it wasn't like a damn bath towel caused everything to mold!)
me always wanting to spend money, while she wants to save it... (honestly now c'mon... i understand save some money for emergencies... but shit! she wants to save every cent wth is the purpose of money if you don't use it?)
tv/music picks.... mostly my problem, tho i'm getting better about it... there is alot of songs she wants to play that i just can't deal with without making fun of the entire song the whole way through (my way of dealing wiht stress make it funny... but if i was to do that... she'd get 10 kindsa pissed at me... so i just say "no" or "turn it off" same with some of the shows... america's next top model, american idol, all those shits...)
what to eat for dinner... well she grew on the poor side and got to like certain things... cheap things.. on skillet meals (like 'fried potoatoes' which is basicly a bunch of pototatoes cut into sizes about 4x the size of french fries, an onion diced up all cooked in greease.. now she puts some type of meat in it atlesat.. but to me that's not dinner!) when she says she's gonna cook dinner it's usually one thing... when i say i'ma cook dinner i go all out... main course, side dishes... everything... it tends to cause alot of problems o.0 what she calls a dinner i call a side course and what i call dinner she calls a fancy meal lol..
who steals all the covers at night and who takes up all the bed.... now i can't watch myself sleep... but... i can't even cover my whole body up, and i'm sleeping on about a foot of bed...
and of course... one of our main arguments is who said what first that caused the original argument.. she swears up and down what i said was first, and i swear up and down, what she says i said was in response to what she said first... usually i'm right but she won't admit it..