I like the wash my bras on the gentle cycle, which is fine because I do most of my laundry at my parents house. One time he wanted me to go to the gym with him and I said I couldnt because I didnt have any clean sports bras. He has a really shitty old washing machine that I dont trust, and he knows this, and I've told him many times that I dont like to wash my bras at his house. SO this time he says "you can just wash it here so you can go with me." So I tried to explain to him again that bras cost a lot of money, mine are brand new, and I dont want them to wear out faster than they need to by using his machine. He FREAKS OUT and thinks that by saying I dont want to use his washing machine that I am personally insulting him. I dont understand it.