Anyone else?

[TallulahGreen]

"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference."

What you said does make sense, to your dismay.

I see it as two different roads...one is a future full of LOVE with your hubby...the other is truly free as you discover yourself...where either takes you, no one knows...

That DOES sound tough...

I am ever so quickly discovering myself more and more every day and I am constantly tripped out.

I am at peace with my weirdness!!!!

[Its a Plant]

Hooray for being okay with bein' a lil out there :jointsmile:

Paaaarty on, Wayne! ~

[TallulahGreen]

Ok Tal about the boy thing... if it don't feel right the answer is obvious...

Alcohol is a subject I have plenty of experience with!!! One of the most critical things is dependency... an alcoholic generally need some one to drink with to make them self feel it is justifiable to drink... you need to stop and see if there is a change in the way he feels about you...

Divorce is a growing statistic for a reason,,, so don't jump into a fire without knowing it will be hot as hell...

I fear I don't want to end up like my mother whom has never been married.

So I always want to make it work. He is a great guy who loves me a lot, but...theres a lot to it. Hes had a lot of past problems in his life that I think have made him turn to alcohol because he doesn't know or want to express things. (like his brother being murdered a little over 2 years ago...and lots more)..it's just life I guess. It's so confusing sometimes...why can't there just be an easy answer to everything?

I like scorpios, never met an annoying scorpio.

[TallulahGreen]

Hooray for being okay with bein' a lil out there :jointsmile:

Paaaarty on, Wayne! ~

It's like, why I AM weird.....why would I want to hang out with people that don't accept weirdos?

I enjoy being a weirdo! It makes life interesting for me and everyone around me...har har har.:S5: :S5:

[higher4hockey]

alcoholics don't need someone to drink with! i'm drinking right now !

[Its a Plant]

I like scorpios, never met an annoying scorpio.

I hear once you go virgo, you never go back..

[TallulahGreen]

alcoholics don't need someone to drink with! i'm drinking right now !

Thats the thing, I would drink even if he weren't around..which makes me realize I can't just blame HIM for the problem...because I drink too. I was raised by alcoholics, just as he was....

It's rough. (My boyfriend is out of town right now..and I imagine ill buy a bottle of wine tonight and drink by myself.....) so yeah....there ya go.

[Skink]

I fear I don't want to end up like my mother whom has never been married.

So I always want to make it work. He is a great guy who loves me a lot, but...theres a lot to it. Hes had a lot of past problems in his life that I think have made him turn to alcohol because he doesn't know or want to express things. (like his brother being murdered a little over 2 years ago...and lots more)..it's just life I guess. It's so confusing sometimes...why can't there just be an easy answer to everything?

I like scorpios, never met an annoying scorpio.

Well I'm happy I don't annoy you...

[TallulahGreen]

I hear once you go virgo, you never go back..

Exactly, my boyfriends birthday is September 8th.

I am September 23rd.


(little weird if ya ask me? We virgos are weird...and I am a virgo/libra...I am fucking nuts!)

[Skink]

I just need to say here ,,,and only one time... alcohol will defeat anyone if they let it control them!!!