Anyone else?

[TallulahGreen]

At least now you won't be doing it alone..

To quote some cheesy 80's love song..."love...is the answer...I believe...love will find a way."

Lol, don't ask me why I know that...

Yes well, if only he weren't an alcoholic. Or WE rather I should say....I suppose.

[higher4hockey]

tallulah......if you were going to break up with him and he put a ring on your finger.......why did that stop you??

[Skink]

I have been feeling down as of late but,,,it is due to current events... I always try to keep a positive attitude/outlook on life... if I obsess in the negative I will defeat myself... you are a upbeat individual Tal and I think you will brush this bad spell of quite easily... Think positive!!!

[TallulahGreen]

tallulah......if you were going to break up with him and he put a ring on your finger.......why did that stop you??

I am a crazy girlfriend who tends to think that after a bad night that we should break up.


....I don't know...


Sometimes I still think I should breakup with him....than others times I can't imagine it.

I want to feel the feeling of freeeeenessss while still having someone to come home to..

I can't seem to have the best of both worlds and I feel I really need it. Boyfriends are hard, relationships are hard..especially being so young....and a diamond ring is a lot of pressure..I don't know what the hell I am doing. I still am trying to figure out how to be who I am, and it is so hard to do that with someone else trying to do the same thing for themselves...
...still trying to figure out, in fact just learning...HOW to live life..how to be responsible...how to not care....how to stay happy.

We have our problems...and the number one problem that makes PROBLEMS in our relationship is ALCOHOL. It is something I had dealt with my whole life and same goes for him and it is a horrible battle and I sometimes feel hopeless like I can't win...but I fear that no matter who I am with will be an alcoholic for fear of my own habits.

I am so very confused about my life at this point in time....really..good luck getting an answer out of me that makes any sense at all.

[TallulahGreen]

I have been feeling down as of late but,,,it is due to current events... I always try to keep a positive attitude/outlook on life... if I obsess in the negative I will defeat myself... you are a upbeat individual Tal and I think you will brush this bad spell of quite easily... Think positive!!!

What is your sign if I may ask and haven't already before????

[Its a Plant]

"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference."

What you said does make sense, to your dismay.

I see it as two different roads...one is a future full of LOVE with your hubby...the other is truly free as you discover yourself...where either takes you, no one knows...

That DOES sound tough...

[higher4hockey]

it seems like you need an answer out of you , more so than i need an answer out of you.


in my past relationships i can look back now, and the moment i started thinking of what it would be like without her....was the beginning of the end. but thats just me.

[TallulahGreen]

it seems like you need an answer out of you , more so than i need an answer out of you.


in my past relationships i can look back now, and the moment i started thinking of what it would be like without her....was the beginning of the end. but thats just me.

Yes well...I imagine whatever is supposed to happen will work itself out and all I can do is keep my head up......and wait for my next life adventure...whatever that may be!
:S5:

[Skink]

Ok Tal about the boy thing... if it don't feel right the answer is obvious...

Alcohol is a subject I have plenty of experience with!!! One of the most critical things is dependency... an alcoholic generally need some one to drink with to make them self feel it is justifiable to drink... you need to stop and see if there is a change in the way he feels about you... edit: and VisaVersa if he should stop...

Divorce is a growing statistic for a reason,,, so don't jump into a fire without knowing it will be hot as hell...

Besided you are to young for marriage,,,find your goals first...

[Skink]

What is your sign if I may ask and haven't already before????

I'm a Scorp...