I think valentines day is cheezy, you should just always tell the one you're with that you love them and that theyre great. I don't ever feel like people need to "top" what they have already done. If your girl gets pissed tell her about all the people (like me! haha) who would love to have a valentine at all. If I had a boyfriend I would like to spend time with him on the couch and watch a movie on valentines day. I think all the symbolic love stuff is cheezeball, like flowers and hearts and candy. Love is love. You can't define it or personify it in any way, so I think.