I just think the first valentines day should be fairly low key not because you have to top it next year, but because personally I'd be totally creeped out if I'd only been dating a guy for a few months and he went wacko... but then again I seem to date total assholes... so what do I know
I think cooking a nice dinner for your date is a GREAT first valentines day gesture... sweet but not cheesy.
Oh and valentines day sucks. By the way. In case no one noticed.