I disagree with not talking to your husband about it. I had to deal with this recently so it hits close to home. I say that men are freaking clueless sometimes and you really have to spell certain things out for them. Personally I think if you talk to him about it and let him know that its NOT okay and he lets her come over again, things are more serious than previously thought. If you dont talk to him about it and she tries to make her way into his life, you never really told him its not okay. Of course he should know its not okay but sometimes you do have to tell them.

The woman in our situation is no longer in our lives at all. We did set new rules down. If something like this happens again he's already had his chance and he knows the consequences. If he makes the choice to do it again knowing the rules and consequences, I'll be walking out before his head stops spinning.
L3G10N's wife Reviewed by L3G10N's wife on . Married women and/or steady girlfriends OK, ladies, I'd like your feedback on this one. As some of y'all know, I was down and out for several days in the hospital until yesterday. While I was gone, a neighbor lady down the street who always has her eyes on other people's husbands made two trips down, once to bring dinner to my husband and once just to "see how he's doing and make sure he's holding up OK" and bring him some golf balls she said her husband left behind but which I feel certain she went out and bought so she'd have Rating: 5