Married women and/or steady girlfriends

[napolitana869]

I'm pretty passive agressive. I'm the type to throw out snide remarks that make people feel badly about themselves and go away on their own. If I were you I would say something about like "thanks for bringing my husband food while I was gone, it's too bad you dont have a loving husband like I do to take care of you if something bad were to happen to you." On the surface it doesnt sound as bad as it would make someone who's already unsure of their situation feel.

[surreys princess]

listen to nothing i say...i am one of those women who married the man in my dreams, not the man of my dreams....that being said, i am with mrsgreenjeans on this one...

[stinkyattic]

[The Greenjeans Sez;]The next time I ran into her, I would tell her my husband doesn't need her help, and to focus on fixing her problems with her own husband. I would also tell her to stay away from my house .....She knows exactly what the fuck she's doing. If you don't call her out and nip it in the bud, she'll do it again,
.[/QUOTE]
Yeah and not just to you, to someone else too... that insecure loser-bitch sounds like she DESERVES not just to lose her man but also her girlfriends if she even has any left

['n then Napolitana Sez;]
If I were you I would say something about like "thanks for bringing my husband food while I was gone, it's too bad you dont have a loving husband like I do to take care of you if something bad were to happen to you."
..[/QUOTE]

Well and that pretty much is the other half of it...

Here's the chick-talk translator:

"My husband dosen't need your help" + "Too bad yours left you"= "I know exactly what you're doing and it takes 3 to play the homewrecker game"

OOOOH makes me so mad. My ex cheated on me with a bar-hag who I literally WATCHED give him her number right in front of me... I was like, haha, no WAY is he gonna go for that scrawny bony bitch who looks 20 years older than she is and can't even walk straight... Guess I was wrong... gotta circle your man like a vulture on a carcass if you want to keep the hyenas at bay.

[EmoRebellion]

Wow... Some of you ladies are fucking crazy!

[stinkyattic]

Wow... Some of you ladies are fucking crazy!

And that my dear is why you love us...:jointsmile:
(well, that, and BOOBS)

[Nation_1ne]

The fact Dave told you she had been visiting and for what reasons shows he has no hidden agendas. It's if someone hides the fact they have been seeing someone you want to worry. It's clear Dave loves you BG. I don't think you should worry too much, don't forget there are men out there who would gladly sweep you from your feet and take you away from Dave. But I'm pretty sure that wouldn't happen, judging by the kind of person you are. You just need to trust Dave. I guess there's nothing wrong with taking Dro's advice though, just don't over do it.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

because its really disrespectful to you.

My point exactly. Dave could be the salt of the earth for all I know. But Charlene is most definitely out of line.

I have punched guys for hitting on me in front of my man. I don't like my partner to be disrespected either.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

LOL! I love your math Stinky! And reading your situation, I have to add, that some guys (not Dave) aren't clueless. Some guys have such overwhelming ego issues that they'll lap up attention from anyone, no matter how skanky.

Guys' egos are like balloons...overinflated, but very thin. Some of them need constant reassurance. I hate guys like that. Needy motherfuckers. It shows a lack of character and strength. Okay, I'm ranting now.

[stinkyattic]

You know you COULD always take the direct approach.

Dave should tell Charlene that:
a) he is fine, don't worry
b) It is highly improper for her to be over there more than just to drop a bouquet for you at the door when you are not home and
c) YOU are the one in the hospital, so why is she bothering HIM? and not visiting YOU? dUUUUrrrr!

[Dave Byrd]

EmoRebellion is right. Some of you ladies are crazy!

I'm not a married woman or a steady girlfriend, but Bird, I am the person who can reassure you you have nothing to worry about. I think you know htat. Charlene is "on the take." Every manwho spends even 45 seconds around her knows she's a pit viper. It makes my blood run cold to remember some of the things we heard her say to Bert before he left her. She's scary. She's a cow. She has sun damage. She paints herself like a streetwalker. She drinks too much. And she can't cook worth a damn. She also doesn't have an ounce of your class, manners, beauty, or gentility. If either of you think I would ever follow my johnson in that direction, you both need your heads examined. I'm not as clueless as you think when it comes to spotting con women.

I love you. That's why I've been married to you for almost 24 years. God willing, we'll have another 40 or 50 more. Try not to let Charlene worry you. She doesn't worry me.