This is news to me, C

If no one responds to your threads, it may just be because the subject matter didn't 'turn them on' at the time...doesn't mean that they haven't read it, and may return to it later.
Like me, for example, I didn't respond to the "If God Exists.." thread for ages, but I was reading it, whilst formulating what I thought I would say....now, it seems that I have monopolised the bloody thing lmaoo...but, you know, that kinda thing really gets my neural juices flowing and I love a good theoretical debate - 'cos we all learn something, at the end of the day.

Listen, being insecure is nothing to feel ashamed about - I'll bet that 99.9% of the folks on this board are insecure - I know I am, but that's the beauty of internet forums...we can be who we want to be, and voice our thoughts.
I do.
One thing I always am, is honest about my views. I have opinions, just like everyone else - and I try to express those opinions in way that doesn't cause out-right offense.
If someone disagrees with you, then it's usually as much about validating their own views, as it is about getting you to validate yours.
It's how I look at things...the "If God Exists.." thread, is proof of that.

I remember starting a thread about "Chicken Killers"...I was only talking about the horrid job that I had to do that night, but it took off in all sorts of directions - from vegetarianism to cruelty to animals...sometimes, a thought can turn into a wild debate about allsorts...another time, that thought might have fallen flat on it's back.
Don't get too hung-up about it, dude...relax...it's only a forum, init!

lol Proof had a go at me for my sense of humour...that's cool, doesn't mean I don't like him anymore...he was just expressing an opinion...just cos he was wrong, doesn't worry me mwhahaha (only kidding, Proof )

We all like ya, C !!