Yeah, me too Sam (My ex-wife) and I still haven't found another to share my life with since the divorce. Heartbreak sucks, but you're still focusing on the feeling and not the essence. Sometimes our feelings get in the way, but the essence isn't selfish, it's truly wanting the best for others.

Love is much more than a feeling or action; it is a way of life. It's not mushy, or weak, or even mildly related to lust, nor is it conditional. I love my ex-wife more now than I did when we were together, but I don't miss her, or want her back. She is happily remarried to a VERY good man, and they have two kids together. I'm happy for her new found family even if I am not a part of it...

Jealousy, anger, self pity, and not being able to accept losing someone you love all stand in the way of truly embracing the essence I'm talking about. It's not always easy, but once you're there, the past doesn't matter anymore and the present becomes...well you know, lol

Did you watch the Ziggy video clip?

My favorite lines are...

"I don't condem; I don't convert"

and

"Take it or leave it; you don't have to believe it"


Anyway, I hope you find what you're looking for...


Much love,