The Ugly Friend

[Jderringer]

Doesnt bother me. To me there is nothing worse then bad teeth, foul body odor, being significantly over-weight, having facial hair, or having a STD...

Well of course, those are very obvious signs of someone who doesn't take care of themselves. (with maybe the exception of being overweight, because some weight problems are glandular in nature. Certain glandular problems make ANY weight loss very difficult for some people) I also said "The hottest thing in the world to me is a smart, funny girl, who is comfortable and confident in her own skin." A female who has an odor, or body hair in the wrong places, or STDs for the most part isn't comfortable with themselves enough to be able to take care of themselves properly.

[surreys princess]

maybe you hang with these people cause you want to be the ugly friend? this isnt your first post like this...the other one was about you not getting as many compliments as rebgirl or something, if i recall......very similar in nature to this post....maybe that other person was right and you should get some larger, not as attractive friends, so you can be center...

all i can say is eventually, as you get older, these things will not bother you anymore..i stopped giving a shit about what people thought around 28..

princess

[stinkyattic]

but I HATE IT when my gorgeous friends are like "Oh, im so fat/fugly/stringy-haired" because it makes me second guess myself which I hate doing. I just have a high body image I guess, lol. I just think its rude because theyre all like size 3-5 and I wear a 12 I'm like hello?!?! I obviously weigh more than you, but I'm happy about it and it feels almost insulting when they say that. .

That comment actually reminds me of something that really made me angry last year.

We have a gym chain called 'Curves' which is supposed to be a chick-only, SUPPORTIVE workout environment.

I had been going to a normal meathead gym, and decided to give it a try.

So one day I'm in there puttering around and there are these 2 skinny chicks in there -like size 4- complaining LOUDLY about how fat they are. Right in front of the rest of the clients... and a LOT of women who go there are VERY overweight.

I'm built on the thick side of average... I used to lift weights, I'm kind of beefy, I ran triathalon for a while, and worked commercial fishing... no skinny asparagus stick here, that's for sure! I am generally happy with my build and was still WICKED insulted. Seriously WTF.

I just think it was really insensitive for these women to be saying those things, almost as if they were actually really insecure, fishing for compliments, or -yikes- had joined that particular gym to feel superior to the middle-aged office ladies just getting into a workout routine!

Needless to say I'm back with the beefcakes at the co-ed meathead place.

So actually your original tangent wasn't one at all... it's like the 'ugly friend' syndrome taken even further.

[friendowl]

sounds like your friends are the type
that get drunk then get flirty then get fucked
then get no call in the morning then get an std and end up pregnant
with 3 kids from 4 daddies . i bet you aint like that
just be cool and get new friends

[TheAtomicPunk]

Lol you're asking a group of stoners about this?

[stinkyattic]

lol bentley it just hit me.. your av pic makes you look like that chick from dirty dancing...

[gabee42ee]

guys want to fuck me bc i am hotter then my best friend (not to be cocky but i am) but guys want to date her ... it sux bc i want a relationship but i have a shitty personality and guys only use me

then again this cunt bitch who i was bff with for years was ugly she is ... but she is so damn cocky that she confuses SOME stupid weak minded people everyone who has half a brain and working eyes can see how she really is... and its really annoying bc she has this way of being cocky without it comming off that way its hard to explain ...
so i guess just be confident

:stoned:

[2600HERTZ]

guys want to fuck me bc i am hotter then my best friend (not to be cocky but i am) but guys want to date her ... it sux bc i want a relationship but i have a shitty personality and guys only use me

then again this cunt bitch who i was bff with for years was ugly she is ... but she is so damn cocky that she confuses SOME stupid weak minded people everyone who has half a brain and working eyes can see how she really is... and its really annoying bc she has this way of being cocky without it comming off that way its hard to explain ...
so i guess just be confident

:stoned:

This is the case with alot of girls for me. I mean who the fuck could date a gril with no personality, I tried it, I loved her amazing giant boobs and smothering my face with them, but no good conversation just led to a bunch of great sex and boringness. The chick with the personality always wins me.

Not that I hate you or anything.

[livinlegend]

lol, this thread is gold.

[someuser]

I guess I'm the odd ball out... I'll go for a girl that has a so-so personality but looks really good over a girl with a really good personality but looks so-so... Though I would probably be good friends with the latter and date the former. Though girls with hardcore 'girly girl' personalities is an instant libido kill for me... But other then that, so long as the girl isnt that type with her cell glued to her ear, has a billion gfs, and isnt afraid to drink some beer, smoke some weed, and ride motorcycles and 4-wheelers I couldnt care less if the rest of her personality isnt stellar.