I said that because I feel I have to stop focusing on myself as far as must orgasm regardless of the reasons I do it. Your giving remarks but no real details. Hows this for a shocker, I'm older than you both by a few years. I'm just immature sexualy I guess I was 27 when I lost my virginity all my buddie had been geting it on for 13 years before I did. I have a lot of girls that like me some are currious what I'd be like, till they find out what I'm like is nervous at level 10 and I can't even say why I am. Perfomance anxiety I guess that comes from my trying to figure out what will satisfy them and not make them run.I know I got to ease up on the pressure vibe and if I knew what they were thinking it might help. I have to get over this WE HAVE TO CUM TOGETHER mentality that I have and just focus on pleasing her.