Do girls stay if they don't orgasm.

[SuperTorch]

I have always been paranoid that if I don't make a girl orgasm she won't be interested in me, or will lose interest very fast. Its well known that girls don't like lame sex. I have just eqauted that to mean if they don't orgasm then its lame. But the statistics show that more than 50% of girls don't orgasm(correct me if I'm wrong). So my questions is are they still enjoying sex and satisfied with it if they don't orgasm. I have made plenty orgasm but I have this mindset that I'd better make it happen along with she better see my orgasm also as proof that she's doing a godd job all of it has led to too much pressure I place on myself and that in turns make most girls nervous as hell feeling my presure to make sex incredible and fullfilling but in the end a lot of times its not because they feel my worries but that if I don't make it happen she'll just kind of fade away unable to tell me that shes not feeling anything.

So here are a few questions,

Girls have you ever really like a guy a lot who did not make you orgasm.

Would you marry someone if you haven't orgasmed with them.

Whats the longest time you been with a guy that you go to bed with that didn't make you orgasm. And why did you leave?

If your not orgasming try to explain what your getting out of the sexual relationship. Is it just being close to them that you like.

If the guy doesn't orgasm is that a turn off for you, or a turn on that he can last and not cum but just deliver the goods with out having to orgasm himself. In other words wich turns you on more seeing a guy orgasm or Seeing him preform and him not demand that he cum. Does he seem like more of a stud if he doesn't orgasm.

SuperTorch Reviewed by SuperTorch on 01-31-2007. Do girls stay if they don't orgasm. I have always been paranoid that if I don't make a girl orgasm she won't be interested in me, or will lose interest very fast. Its well known that girls don't like lame sex. I have just eqauted that to mean if they don't orgasm then its lame. But the statistics show that more than 50% of girls don't orgasm(correct me if I'm wrong). So my questions is are they still enjoying sex and satisfied with it if they don't orgasm. I have made plenty orgasm but I have this mindset that I'd better make it Rating: 5

[Bong30]

OMG.... I can feel your stress coming through the screen.

First thing you need to do is "chill the fuckout"

How are you ever going to make a girl orgasm if you are shaking in your boots...

You need to get a girlfriend that will love you for YOU.

When you are exploring each others bodies you will ask her "do you like that" she will ask the same....

have your girlfriend show you how she masterbates, and then do it for her..


Rule # 1 if you want to be a stud....

Boys drop there pants and start humping right away......

A man will drop "her" pants and make her come, and then drop his pants.....

If you can get her to orgasm and then start doing it... she could have multiple orgasms.....

Just remember, If you start giving a girl multiple orgasms (young one, im sure from how old you sound) you will never be able to get rid of her.......LOL

You will be fine......Relax


someday ill tell you about the hat trick.....LOL

[friendowl]

if she dont cum shes gone
start practicing your moves

[SuperTorch]

I'm definitely looking for the female perspective on this. I have always been shockingly nervous when it comes to sex, and it has always scared the shit out of the girls I'm trying to hook up with. They love the shit out of me during regualr daytime interaction and a lot think I'm fun and different from a lot of the other guys. But the pressure I put on myself to orgasm so they can feel like they got me off or a least weren't left feeling like they didn't get me off or the experence was lame is off the charts. I think I'm just going to try to have sex 4-5 times with out me orgasming and that might give me a new perspective, even though the reasons I've alway felt I needed to were ethical in that I wanted her to feel like she made me orgasm, but which in the end made the girls nervous as hell maybe not understanding me or the vibe that that pressure was giving them. I'm 99.99% sure I'm way older than you, I'm just looking for a new perspective maybe and sometime direct from the girls can give that.

[Bong30]

99% older the FO and I?

LOL you are funny kid.

I am 36, with 2 kids.

Friendowl.... is 30 something with 3 kids....


You dont need a girls perspective......you are getting MENS perspective.

shit.....

I can tell you what my wife will say...... I have been with her since Jr. High back in 84..... I can tell you what she thinks...... you have no Idea, On many things obviously.


have sex 4-5 times and dont cum....see how that works for ya....... LOL

Look up Blueballs, and get back to me. aahhhh so young......LOL

[SuperTorch]

I said that because I feel I have to stop focusing on myself as far as must orgasm regardless of the reasons I do it. Your giving remarks but no real details. Hows this for a shocker, I'm older than you both by a few years. I'm just immature sexualy I guess I was 27 when I lost my virginity all my buddie had been geting it on for 13 years before I did. I have a lot of girls that like me some are currious what I'd be like, till they find out what I'm like is nervous at level 10 and I can't even say why I am. Perfomance anxiety I guess that comes from my trying to figure out what will satisfy them and not make them run.I know I got to ease up on the pressure vibe and if I knew what they were thinking it might help. I have to get over this WE HAVE TO CUM TOGETHER mentality that I have and just focus on pleasing her.

[Samwhore]

I have to get over this WE HAVE TO CUM TOGETHER mentality that I have and just focus on pleasing her.

Then thats up to you, you have to do that

[Storm Crow]

Sex is a part of a relationship. OK, I'm not the "usual" gal- I have a killer IQ and think a bit differently than most people. When I went looking for a husband, I looked for brains and a good personality! There were a lot of dudes who were a lot more handsome than my hubby (there was Jerry the barber- shallow but killer looks, as an example), but looks don't last, while character does. My hubby has an IQ about 10-20 points lower than mine (but since I'm in the top 2%, pickings are slim). Since he's now in his mid60s, sex is a minor part of our relationship. When you are young, it seems to be the "be all and end all", but as you get older, it's nice, but WHO YOU ARE is far more important. Treat your gal as an absolute queen- open doors, give her flowers, do a lot of foreplay, ask her opinion (on ANY subject) and respect it. Do all that romantic stuff...she will love it! Then one day, if you feel you still are not doing as good in bed with her as you think you can, both of you get really stoned and you ask her "What turns you on?" If she's stoned enough, she will tell you. - Granny:stoned:

[klup]

wow, youre seriously getting too far into the sink hole. just fuck her, fuck her for you, fuck her for her, but just plain fuck her. then cuddle.

[OpJ]

No. lol get good at felatio.